Being a gentleman used to be a one way process: you treat others with respect and observe social rules. It is “one way” but you don’t feel you  have anything to lose because you know people would treat you the same way - until recently. Like any rules, once broken and the bad behaviour is tolerated, others will start to do the same and the system will start to crumble. That’s what we have seen in our societies the past couple of decades - people no longer respect others. My q